As participants in the hockey community, there are moments where we, as coaches, observe parental behavior and try to reconcile it with our own sense of reality.
This week felt like a live experiment.
Daryl Jones — a.k.a. Jonesy, a.k.a. the real most interesting man in the world, a.k.a. The Gold Coast’s Most Eligible Bachelor (office hours: M–F 8pm–12am, Sa–Su 9pm) — announced he had “acquired” two major youth hockey organizations.
The language alone — straight out of Harvard Business School — should have been the giveaway.
It wasn’t.
It was congratulated.
It was criticized.
It was shared.
It was believed.
On April Fool’s.
Nearly ⅓ of the youth hockey registration in the northeast had seen the post in less than 24 hours.
That got us thinking:
Do people under pressure accept information faster?
Research suggests yes.
Which leads to a bigger question:
Are we living in a time of elevated anxiety?
Not the sharp, obvious kind — but something quieter.
Ambient anxiety: a persistent, low-level unease that isn’t tied to a specific threat, but subtly shapes how we perceive and respond to the world.
The Grit Kore Anxiety Index
To explore this, we combined market volatility (VIX) with Google search behavior to build the Grit Kore Anxiety Index
What we see:
- A noticeable rise beginning around 2015
- A step-change post-2020
- A new baseline of elevated ambient anxiety
Why this matters
A friend — whose father and brother both played in the NHL — shared something interesting.
Growing up, his mom constantly tracked what other prospects were doing.
Now that their careers are over… she follows politics with the same intensity.
The outlet changed.
The behavior didn’t.
So I asked him:
“Was that awareness helpful?”
His answer:
“No. If anything, it probably made things worse.”
The takeaway
Anxiety doesn’t just exist — it moves.
From hockey… to school… to careers… to politics.
And if we’re not aware of it, it starts to shape:
- how we think
- how we react
- how we parent
The challenge
As parents, coaches, and leaders, we need to recognize:
- Ambient anxiety is real
- It influences behavior more than we think
- We have a choice in how we respond to it
Take time to:
- move your body
- slow your mind
- create space
Because if we don’t…
this ambient anxiety doesn’t just affect us — it transfers to our kids.
Find. A. Way.
Greg
