Category Archives: Mindset, Confidence & Grit

Carbs Are the Engine: Fuel Up to Skate Fast and Think Faster

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Carbs get a bad rap, and for an adult at a desk all day that’s partly fair. For a growing athlete it isn’t. Why carbs are a young hockey player’s main fuel, the difference between high- and low-glycemic carbs, when each one belongs, and a game-day rice bowl kids can make in ten minutes.

Protein Timing: Big Protein Earlier, Quick Carbs Closer to Game Time

Protein timing for young hockey players trips up a lot of families, and it tripped up ours too: more protein always felt like the safe answer, until timing turned out to matter just as much as amount. Part 2 of 9 in the Athlete Nutrition series, built from the weekly nutrition tips in the Hockey […]

Hydration = Performance: Drink Early, Drink Often

Hydration tips for young hockey players: three infused water jars

If you’re looking for hydration tips for young hockey players, here’s what changed for us. Part 3 of 9 in the Athlete Nutrition series, built from the weekly nutrition tips in the Hockey IQ book. New here? Start with the Nutrition Basics intro. Pretty much all through her elementary school years, the water bottle I […]

Pre-Game Fuel Basics: What to Eat 2–3 Hours Before Puck Drop

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A Squirt tournament in Providence and a team lunch of chicken fingers taught me more about pre-game fuel than any article. What to eat 2–3 hours before puck drop, from the Hockey IQ book, and the sandwich my kids learned to make themselves.

The Daily Gap: Teaching Kids to Live Inside the Growth Gap and Earn Their Confidence

We’ve all done it. Pretended to be our favorite athlete—driving to the hoop, scoring the goal, making the big save. For most of us, it stayed a game. But sometimes, it becomes something more. Lately, we’ve also seen youth sports become more intense. Bigger goals, earlier pressure. The issue isn’t ambition. It’s when the goal […]

The Path of Identity

Why Small Intentional Decisions Matter. We’ve all been there. A tournament 45 minutes outside a third-tier city. Three-star hotel. Rink. Lobby. Repeat. Vacation days disappearing faster than expected. The parent playdate goes a little too long. The next morning…the idea of the gym, reading, or anything beyond breathing and blinking feels like a stretch. A […]

Why Grit Matters

In a world of constant comparison, identity is under pressure, and grit is what holds it together. We’ve all heard it: “Kids these days aren’t built like we were.” And honestly… that’s true. But not for the reason people think. It’s not that kids are softer. It’s that they’re growing up in a completely different […]

Grit Kore Anxiety Index

As participants in the hockey community, there are moments where we, as coaches, observe parental behavior and try to reconcile it with our own sense of reality. This week felt like a live experiment. Daryl Jones — a.k.a. Jonesy, a.k.a. the real most interesting man in the world, a.k.a. The Gold Coast’s Most Eligible Bachelor […]

Defining Grit

Every season we try to anchor our team with a theme—something that captures how we want to play and who we want to be. A few years ago, that word was grit. It fit the game perfectly. Hockey is a little grimy. A little chaotic. It rewards the player who keeps going when things aren’t […]

Youth Hockey Tryouts and the Question of Identity

Youth hockey tryouts in Fairfield County reveal something fascinating every year. Parents become anxious, conversations become tense, and behaviors sometimes emerge that seem… out of character. Which raises a strange question. Why are parents so emotionally invested in something they are not actually participating in? The players are the ones trying out. Not the parents. […]